A Heavy Package

I wonder a lot about how other women feel about their sex at home. A married woman's sex life is so different from a single woman's. Being in a relation, you are required to try and keep things spicy. When you are single, the chase, the catch, the playing hard to get, the nasty dirty romp at 2 am, that's all foreplay, its all fun. Once you're settled in with children and barely have time to fit in a 10min shower, the last thing you are thinking about is sex, right. But if you are determined to make sure that hubby is happy in you get your release, there's no problem.
But what if that wasn't the only problem? What if you did all the dating and waited for sex util marriage, or used the 30-90 day rule and made him wait for sex, or what if you had sex but decided you loved him too much to care. I'm taking about shortcomings. What if he didn't measure up? How does that feel? How hard is it to ignore the fact that you aren't satisfied by the man you love? I'm a lucky girl, but I have been in relationships in the past where I had to stop and say..."this won't work, I'll regret it later". People try to lie, but the fact is that sex is one of the most important parts of a relationship, so why would anyone settle?
I refuse... gimme more! I'd much rather be running away from the back snapping donkey kong, instead faking it for tiny tims ego.


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Blog Headache

OMG!
There are so many wonderful blogs out there! Sometimes I go online an though I love being loyal to the blogs I'v already fallen in head over heels for, I also want to explore and see all the beautiful finds, diy's and such. It so unfortunate that I cant seem to find one place to sit and enjoy. There are so many options that I begin to get a headache from confusion and I just give up. I wish there was an easier way to find bloggers that you enjoy and really vibe with. Oh well, back to endlessly surfing and blog hopping!

Kisses and Cupcakes


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Homemaking Proudly

Now that I have traded my fast paced lifestyle for a slower but more gratifying life at home with my children I have begun to wonder. What ever happened to being proud of being the queen of our castles? Why did we start thinking it was more important to run a business than it is to run our homes? Coming from someone who has experienced both sides I have a pretty good understanding of why both are important and on days when baby Lilah won't stop crying while Johnny is aggravated after a loss with his soccer team, I can admit that I would love to run back to the old me! That feeling subsides after a nap or a glass of wine...or two! I'm curious to know what other women think. Which of the two brings the most happiness? I know all women are different and one life won't be for the other...but having changed my life I wonder how easy, or hard, that would be for other beauties...

Kisses and Cupcakes

I'm (...)

I saw this cool post on someones blog...forgive me for not remembering who's...damn I'm horrible. Anyhow, it reminded me of Myspace and all the little survey-ish type widgets you could put on your page to tell people secrets or likes/dislikes. I know, very lame! But after thinking it over, I figured this would be a great way for me to tell on myself... lol. I want to let people know who I am and how (...) I am. Ahaha

I’m weird because…

Halloween...my favorite holiday!

^I have to have ice in my cereal.
^I leave my shoes on all day so that I have that über relaxed "aaahhh" moment when I take them off at night.
^I lick the flavoring off of my potato chips.
^I get anxiety when I see 9:11 on my microwave.
^I get a kick out of baby gurgles.
^I'm not affectionate and squirm when I see PDA.
^I want a Nanny Cam just because..
^I eat raw bacon. (I'm surprise I haven't gotten sick yet, ahhh)
^I can’t sleep without a fan, even in the winter.
^I cannot blow or wipe my nose in tissue...cloth napkin please.
^I put cayenne pepper in and on everything I cook.
^I like the way my eyes look after I wake up.
^I pretend I'm under a waterfall when I take a shower.
^I have a shoe addiction but can't buy a pair unless I have a shoegasm. Oh yeah!
^I often buy things that don't fit because I know I can change things up or wear them fashionably incorrect (a dress a few sizes too small can be the hottest shirt EVER).
^I love garlic and onions (they are the panties of every dish).
^I love to TiVo shows and watch a few episodes back to back when I have a free weekend.
^I go to the movies at 11:00am for a matinee deal...alone!
^I do my makeup before I get dressed and almost always transfer. (doh!)
^I scratch my nose by snorting.
^I swoon over frozen canned chunk pineapples and fried dough.
^I get raging anxiety in the passenger seat and cover my eyes on hills and speed bumps an sharp turns, oh and winding highway roads!

I’m a bad friend because…
^I never check messages and sometimes delete them without reading or listening.
^I procrastinate like you've never seen.
^I'm harshly and hurtfully honest, but I'm usually right.
^I usually think I'm right...
^I don't like to babysit (I'm anxious and fearful of my own responsibility, I don't want to be responsible for yours to, even if only for a couple hours).


I’m a good friend because…
^I consider my friends family.
^I'm harshly and hurtfully honest.
^I never ask for anything but time.
^I'm always willing to give.

I’m sad because…
^I wish there was more time in a day.
^My son is 8 and no longer mamas baby..
^I hold major grudges.
^I'm not as soft spoken and well mannered as I want to be.
^I don't get to get all glammed up like I used to...mommyhood does that.
^My nail tech moved to Cali to be an artist...I need to hurry up and make that Oprah money so Ican fly him back!!!

I’m happy because…
^My son and daughter love me with any conditions at all.
^People recognize how hard parenting is and how much my work shows thru my children.
^Its winter and I can crotchet and knit lots of scarves hats and blankies!
^I'm taking my son on his first trip ever! Were off to Florida for a Disney infused 2weeks...thanks to my travel agent aunt with the great hookups, discounts, and season passes!

Yes, I AM quite cool...lol

I’m excited for…
^Changing my lifestyle and getting back to my pre mommy body (Jennifer Hudson...help me!)
^Watching my Lilah grow, and my Johnny protecting her every move.
^Helping my hubz make changes in himself for betterment.
^Ikea Hacking!!! Still trying to think of the coolest way to revamp my Klubbo.
^Painting the entire apartment over.
^Roast chicken in as many different flavors as possible. Lemon, Thyme, Garlic, Spicy, Jerk....so many possibilities. Dieting my not be so bad!
^My XBox360 Kinect (sweat please)
^Streaming Netflix and TiVo catch up!
^Summer! Better body, better health, less clothes, and beach visits! Cant wait to see my Lilah's little crooked toes in the sand!



Create one of your own and let people know your quirks. It's a great way to open up conversation!

I Promise...

• To be more devoted to my blog life.

• To write more juicy stuff about my sex-capades...though they may be a little different since. "I's Married Na"!

• To share more of my fabulous life beyond sex and what it may inspire me to do :-o

• To share my love of making things pretty, including my makeup and hair artistry!

• To share my writings.

• To include my desire to constantly redecorate my teeny apartment.

• To share my DIY inventions, finds, and dreams!

Wishing the next few weeks, I will honor these promises to myself and to anyone who may stop by and enjoy a laugh and discovery of self and beauty with me! But right now, I leave to do some yarn-ing tonight and tomorrow maybe convince the hubz to install my shelves for my nail polish display over my desk and apply the resin to my desk top! Maybe I'll take picturse...? Everyone loves a colorful before and after! To be continue....

Kisses and Cupcakes

Adrianna

EDIT: I've decided to start another blog for all things un-sexy...though a huge leaner mirror or a freshly painted and tufted chair can be a little sexy, hmmm. Ahaha Anywho, for my future creative sharings check out PrettyMade.blogspot.com

Oh Yeah!

Marry Me Now, Baby.

"I just want to do it! I want to be able to call you my wife now. I'm tired of waiting. I know I promised to save for a big wedding and a pretty 2 karat-princess cut, but you can still have that, just later".

Ummm, no! Doesn't every girl want the element of surprise and romance? Don't we want to know that after all the bull we've put our guy through, that he still wants to call you his wife? That no matter what, we we're worth it all? Yes! But of course I had to hear a heartbreaking story today. This girl said, "If he wants to marry you and you love him, then do it. Don't wait! Because my boyfriend asked me to marry him and I told him not now and he died in a car accident 5 days later". That truly made me sad. Of course we'll never know what's on he other side of the door called tomorrow, but I don't want to live my life in fear. I don't want to jump the gun for his convenience or the knowledge of 'another day not promised'.

So I would say, "No", what would you say?